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bee9
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bedwetting & anxiety
« Thread Started on Apr 22, 2009, 2:30pm »

Hello, i have bedwetting problem and was wondering if this was from anxiety because there is no medical stuff wrong with me. And i am very afraid to grow up i want to stay little girl forever..sometimes i wet on accident when i am sleeping but sometimes i wet on purpose cus it is weird but in some way it helps me feel safe and be a little girl. PLEASE don't make fun of me. i am 16 year old girl.

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Re: bedwetting & anxiety
« Reply #1 on Apr 23, 2009, 7:58am »

Hello bee,

I dont really know if it could be an anxiety thing but I can see why you could be anxious about it which obviously doesnt help the condition.
If there isnt anything medically wrong then maybe your doctor can send you to a therapist to find out why .
Growing up into an adult can be scary for people as it means more responsibility and you have to do things for yourself ,leave the security of the family nest and are expected to act grown up as well .
Have you spoke or can you speak to your parents about this to tell them you are scared so maybe they can help you with the transition ? No one expects you to be adult in one day and even adults still make mistakes .

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Re: bedwetting & anxiety
« Reply #2 on Apr 26, 2009, 5:18pm »

thanks strawberry

I am actually seeing a therpist at the moment I have talked to him about it and he may think it is somethig about not wanting to grow up and i agree. He is a big help with helping me into the transition of adult world and says there is no rush. I wasn't sure if the bedwetting was from anxiety or not about growing up cus it seems like that helps me be little. I just want my therapist to help me find out why i don't want t grow up so i am working on that

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Re: bedwetting & anxiety
« Reply #3 on Apr 26, 2009, 9:59pm »

Im glad you are seeing a therapist to try to work this out .
At your age it is hard because your not a kid but your not an adult either ,some things you get told to 'grow up ' with and other things you just arent 'old enough' to do ..it is confusing .
The main thing is people will love you no matter what you do.
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